Monday, March 23, 2009

A great conversation chooses no age

I am fond of being with different age groups, young and old. Being the youngest in the family, I’ve been exposed as I tag along with my mom in her meetings or being with my sister and her friends. I even sat in one of my sister's classes in UP, and the professor thought I was one of those who skip classes most of the time. Excuse me, I was just a grade school student then... I probably just looked mature. ☺ hahaha!!!

In AIESEC, I had a good combination of dealing with senior executives and training the new members. So now even when I attend alumni gatherings, I don’t feel different from the not-so-old generation, and neither do I feel aloof with the young ones. Except when they start calling me “ate” (older sister) or say “po” or “opo”(word to respect their elders) in their statements. Apart from that we share the same experience that easily connects us with the same language and humor (or must be the alcohol).

Much to the surprise of my mom’s friend, I can also converse with them while having a nice Vietnamese dinner. What she doesn’t know is that my mom would always tag me along for her dinners as her photographer in various get-togethers. I got used to being around their age group and hear that their conversations are not all about stock markets and health problems. Once they start talking about their recent business trips to so and so countries, I can easily relate to how tough the immigration is in that area, how expensive the restaurants are or how nice the cultural districts are in that country.

So while eating my Vietnamese dinner with the owner showing me the authentic way of eating it, I recalled the time I went to Vietnam and nearby countries for a travel adventure. The conversation easily went on to the different types of Vietnamese food then to the places I’ve explored like Hanoi and Halong Bay. I was able to connect it and asker her how she was able to start her Vietnamese restaurant here in the Philippines back in the 90s. Next thing I knew two hours have passed and I was actively part of the conversation.

She was so fond of the fact that I was casually talking to them with no hesitation about the generation gap. That’s when I started thinking of writing this post and started thinking why it was indeed no effort for me to share that nice conversation with them. I realized the right combination for a great conversation = great company + common interest/topic + food and you are sure to have hours and hours of laughter and shared memories of the past and the present.

So be it young or old, I am one with the group.



Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Therapeutic shopping and cooking

Some people say that shopping is therapeutic. I feel the same about it, but grocery shopping to be more specific. Even when I was in Europe before, I loved the weekend market and the morning walk around town. It’s during this time that I can find the rare ingredients to cook my favorite Filipino dish.

Now that I am back here in the Philippines, it feels great to do these things for myself. With independence comes responsibility, so I have to do the grocery shopping for myself. It’s just a small space and a small appetite, yet the effort is usually the same.

I learned to cook out of survival until it became fun when people started liking my Filipino dishes. Now that I am living on my own, I found cooking to be task consuming. So I relied heavily on cafeteria food even when the food is just like a movie that keeps repeating on itself. Until my married colleagues shared their easy-to-prepare recipes for their family, I began to love cooking once again.

The first step was to visit the grocery and get the necessary ingredients. I am amazed by the wide variety of choices in the supermarket. It’s not just the microwave-ready dishes that are available, but even fresh fruits and vegetables that are already peeled and ready to cook. They even have fresh meat but have been pre-marinated with the usual dishes like Chicken Adobo, Korean BBQ style or longganisa style. Once the list is finished and the cart is full, I initially thought I’d have to bring the grocery bags myself to the taxi stop. To my great surprise, there were customer service assistants who will push the carts until your car or taxi station and even help out in putting it inside the cab.

So now I am trying on different dishes that I can prepare with the least preparation required. The menu for the week is prepared, and I’m more sure to have a filling and healthy lunch. Bon Appetite!


Friday, February 27, 2009

When does driving become a necessity

When it comes to technology I’m always updated with the latest gadgets. From laptop, phone to camera, I try to have the latest model for me to capture moments and be able to share them immediately. I like making music videos for friends, edit photos from a recent trip or just being able to store several gigabytes of priceless memories.

What does this have to do now with driving? I’m quite primitive when it comes to driving. Similar to someone who would say I don’t need all those gadgets, I felt I just didn’t need to drive. Well, back in college I wanted to learn how to drive but my mom didn’t approve of it. She was probably worried that if I learned how to drive, I would go to places or maybe mixed drinking and driving.

I survived without knowing how to drive, since there was always an alternative of someone driving for you. and all the more having a good transportation system abroad. It was more practical and even faster to take the public transport even when it’s late a night you would have a safe option.

Not until I moved back to Manila. Reality has constantly been convincing me that driving is a necessity. I’ve had the alternative of taking my “automatic” car, calling for a cab that goes to my doorstep and brings me to work. However, the service was limited since from work it was hard to have that kind of service. All the more when I just want to escape the busy streets of Manila, I can only reach where the buses go. The public transportation has become irritating at most times, especially when they take so long. They normally stop in every corner in the hope of being able to fill in the bus and squeeze in 16 people in a jeepney when it’s only for 14 people.

“Finally!” That’s what all my friends say. They’ve always been waiting for me to be the one to drive and not just the mere navigator or organizer of trips. My adventures then were limited to where the bus could take me or where my friends are willing to drive. This time I feel I can make things happen. I still want to explore several places in the Philippines that’s just a drive away. I suddenly feel free just the thought of being able to do that. Then I can take more photos, create more videos and just enjoy the beauty of the Philippines outside of the metro.

I have 8 more lessons to go which I plan to finish by end of March. My first step on the pedal and it’s not as scary as I thought it would be. I look forward to the time when I can say I am one with the car.


Friday, February 20, 2009

Writing down my thoughts

In the age of technology where photos and videos are easy to upload, it’s easier to update albums in facebook/multiply with a few words to explain what the event was about. Also, I’ve been able to spend a lot of time with friends where we share our thoughts on how our lives have been and the challenges we recently face. I didn’t have the urge to write as much as when I was abroad. My life has been somewhat ordinary since I got back in the Philippines, so I thought there was nothing new to write about.



Then I realized, I missed sharing my thoughts and ideas through this blog. Since I started writing, it’s mostly been about my travels and adventures in different cities and countries. This time, it will include the adventures in the Philippines and more of my thoughts about being back home. Writing has been my comfort zone as much as chatting with friends. Yet I believe it brings more meaning when it’s all written as part of a story or a realization I am able to share.



I am back to blogging. Welcome again to my world. Watch out for more.

Friday, October 17, 2008

Celebrating life

It's been awhile since I've posted in my blog as the days just pass by into weeks and not realizing it's turned into months. While I am really looking forward to the long Christmas break here in the Philippines, I also want to freeze time for me to accomplish all the things I've committed to make the year 2008 to be.

One of the most enjoyable times I've had was finally being present at Luce, my niece's birthday celebration. She's turned 5 years old last August 25 (yes this post is long overdue) and believe it or not ever since she was born, literally the day my sister gave birth, I have always been away. What can I do? Those were my active years in AIESEC and when I started exploring the world outside the Philippines.

My sister was not yet due for labor on the day I was leaving for the International Congress in Serbia and Montenegro, but my niece was so excited to be out in this world so she was pushing herself to be born immediately. My plane was already leaving and my sister was preparing to give birth on her 8 month old baby. When I cam back from the conference, a tiny baby was born..... 2kg.... I was even scared to hold her in my arms as she was really so delicate and small.

The year after I was posted to Netherlands and obviously August is always the month for the AIESEC International Congress, so didn't go home until September. Three more years after I was still abroad, attended another IC in India, then was on a traineeship in France then Singapore. So it's been a running joke in the family that I've never attended my niece's birthday celebration. Since she's the only grandchild of my parents it has really been a yearly celebration with various themes of McDonald's party packages. Not until this year when they were thinking that she's already five so it's not a big deal anymore. I just had to demand that she still has one... it's special since I'm finally home! hahaha!!! I also want the happy meal prizes and join the "bring me" games and various party games. So they heard my plea and this year it had to be something different.

The past years Luce has always been a Disney Princess so this year she was a lovely Fairy. She's really turned out to be a big girl, you wouldn't imagine she was just 2kg when she was born. As a way of thanking all her guests, she had a duet song with her cousin Gabby from her favorite High School Musical series. At a very young age, she already has the making of being a singer - good genes that she's gotten from her dad, as you can see it's also her cousin singing with her.

Here's a sample for you to enjoy.



(she's the one in purple dress) - proud aunt :)

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

AIESEC Philippines: Continuing the legacy through the years

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We recently had an alumni reunion for previous Presidents of AIESEC Philippines which was hosted by Rollie Gosiengfiao, our President for AIESEC Philippines in 1969-70.

The event was well represented by all eras from the 60’s to present. Just like any AIESEC gatherings that’s happening this year to commemorate the 60 years of AIESEC globally, the spirit is still alive amongst the people who once had that ideal vision of the world. Now living the legacy and creating the positive impact in different fields, it was great to reconnect the dots to how AIESEC Philippines had become what it is today.

Just before the night was over, each Member Committee President had a chance to give a speech on their contribution during their year as President. I suddenly recall one of the sessions in an international conference. We were asked if there was one thing that we’d want to leave as legacy for our team and share it during a reunion the following year, what would it be. At that precise moment, I had a flashback of what I considered to be my legacy and continued on to present time where I am hearing the legacies that other generations have left as well. The figures may have been different through the years, but I saw the same passion that everyone was proud to have achieved “in their time.” It was a mix of nostalgia and a sense of achievement for one can only look at a legacy after a few years that you’ve been away.

At the end of the night, we had a wonderful night recalling history and discussing on how things can move forward with the alumni forming a vital part in the future. Until our next gathering in January 2009.

"Its good to be, it's good to be an MCP!"


Sunday, July 06, 2008

Rediscovering Southeast Asia

I am continuing on my previous posts of my adventures to Cambodia, Vietnam, Thailand and Philippines. It had to be a mix of new places to discover and my revisiting cities I've been to before.

Bangkok and beyond
I got to see the city of Bangkok again after 4 years, wIth the same ambiance and heat while going through different temples.
Guards Bangkok temple

This time I had additional trips to the Tiger Temple and Elephant Safari. We only had 2 days to make sure we cover the most important sites.
Elephant Ride Sleepy Tiger

It was also a good time to catch up with my friend and lovely host, Weaw. She showed us a grand view of Bangkok at night while having one of the most expensive drinks in the city. But the atmosphere was priceless!

BKK view by night
AIESEC gangster in BKK ex-MCPs



The road trip to Cambodia
I had mixed reviews of whether the route from Bangkok to Siem Reap was safe. People just mentioned of bus scams and that the roads are not developed, thus it won't be that comfortable for a whole day. I just had to see it for myself and take the adventure.

The road from Bangkok to the border was a smooth ride. We were cautious on where it can possibly go wrong, so when we stopped at a restaurant just before the border I started to doubt the reason for the stopover. The driver suggested we have lunch, and then a tourist guide approached our group and asked those who don't have a visa. No problem with us since I don't need one and my friend already secured one in Manila. The tourist guide looked at my passport and said I needed to pay for stamp fee. I refused and said that I don't think I need one as I don't even need a visa to go to Cambodia. After an hour, they finally brought us to the border and I didn't need to pay extra fee for that stamp.

While we were at the border, we had to wait for our bus. There were already 8 of us waiting, but they said we had to wait for more people to arrive until the bus gets full. Waiting and waiting... heat and boredom was killing me. After 2 hours that almost felt forever, we finally hit the road and took this airconditioned bus.

I was ready for some discomfort and just look at the view from outside. It was all rough roads, so the ride was bumpy and at 3pm the aircondition didn't seem to make a difference in cooling the bus. The driver was taking it slow and at first I thought it was just because of the road. Then I saw cars and trucks overtaking us that it almost felt that if I was running with the bus I won't be left behind. Patience... patience... I tried to sleep over it and I was able to take a nap for about an hour until I woke up hitting my head on the seat in front of me.

Bangkok-Siem Reap Bus Ride Bangkok-Siem Reap Bus Ride
Road from Popiet to Siem Reap

It didn't help that there was an old Australian guy seated at my back with a Chinese girl. He was teaching her how to speak in English and pronounce some words correctly. At first it was amusing, as he was making her read a book and later on ask questions related to it. It was really annoying when this was already for the whole ride and I jut wanted to rest. The Chinese girl
was not even responding, so I wasn't sure if she was even getting it or he was just being too pushy on it.

After about 9 hours of a bumpy ride and a long stopover in a restaurant, we reached Siem Reap at 11pm. As what Lonely Planet said they will bring you to their recommended hotel and they bus company will get commission for that. For the sake of not going with the group, we took a tuktuk to another hotel recommended by Lonely Planet.

We reached this hotel that was recommended by Lonely Planet but it looked a bit old and empty. Well, what did I expect for $5/room/night anyway? I wasn't sure I wanted to stay but I was too tired to scout for another hotel so we stayed there. Besides, the owner was not pushy and he just let us decide for ourselves. That made us decide later on to stay in that place as we were only going to stay there at night time then be out for most of the day.

Temples of Angkor Wat, Siem Reap
The following day, we went around the temples of Angkor Wat by walking and taking the motorcycle. We thought we can just walk from one temple to another, except that it was really a big area so we had to rent a motorcycle for the day. The owner of the hotel said we can rent one motorbike for $9/day which also includes the driver/tourist guide. It was a good deal plus it was faster to take the motorcycle compared to a tuktuk, though it took some time getting used to it.

Motorcycle Ride Siem Reap


Angkor Thom Waiting for Sunset that didn't come


The view of the temples were amazing and had a different feeling when walking around the temples in Bangkok. It really looked more ancient and I just forgot about the heat while walking around since most of the time there were trees around the temple and kids offering you a drink in all the stops.

Angkor Wat Angkor Wat
Amazing view of Angkor Wat- day and night

At night time we went to this Bar street where there are international cuisines and bars with mostly foreigners filling the area. Alcohol was cheap, beers for $1 and cocktails for $3. However, as the days were spent walking around the temples we would normally be like Cinderella, going home by 12 really exhausted and getting that sleep.


Flying from Cambodia to Vietnam
After Cambodia we took a flight to Hanoi, Vietnam and we arrived at 11pm. My friends Agnes and Monna were already there, so we had a trip booked to go for the boat cruise to Halong bay the following day. You can see the details at my previous post.

More flights... Hanoi-Manila-Boracay
We had enough of the road trip and flying after 10 days. The final leg of the adventure was a long trip getting connecting flights and all. We started waiting for our flight at 11pm at the Hanoi Airport. Our flight was supposed to leave at 1am but we had an hour delay so we had t wait even more. We then reached Manila at 630am and I asked my brother to pick us up so we can leave some of our stuff and then head off to the Domestic Terminal. We passed by at KFC for breakfast and then was rushing to get our 930am flight. To our dismay, even the local flight was delayed for 30 minutes and the domestic terminal was not really comfortable for long hours of waiting. Finally, we left Manila and arrived Caticlan airport at 11am. It was still not Boracay, we had to take few more minutes for riding a tricycle-boat-tricycle.

Heaven....
Crystal blue water of Boracay

It was worth all the wait the moment we saw the crystal blue water and powder white sand. We immediately went for a quick swim then I had a relaxing massage by the beach. We spent the whole afternoon just lazing around and catching up some sleep. That's what beach life is all about anyway right?

Just chillin by the beach Picture perfect Boracay

We were in Boracay for 5 days and 4 nights, just enough time to appreciate the island life and chill. No other agenda but to enjoy the sound of waves, feel the breeze of fresh air and enjoy eating seafood. That was only my second time in Boracay, and I wondered why I was not there more often. Well, I had to leave the country to check out other beaches to be able to appreciate what I had back home all along. :)

At night we would have seafood galore with the first two nights being happy with hundred grams of squid/fish/shells. The last two nights we discovered the market place where you can just buy at the market and have it cooked for a very minimal fee. What we would pay in restaurants for 100g we would get at the market for 1kg. After a full dinner, we would go out for some drinks by the beach while listening to a live band.
Hello Crabby!!! Really really full after Seafood Dinner
Hey crabby! Seafood dinner like there's no tomorrow

Enjoying the sunset

We always missed the sunset in Vietnam and Cambodia, but in Boracay we had 4 days of clear sunset view. The first day was just relaxing and seeing the view from the beach. The succeeding days we tried to get it from a different view and went sailing and island hopping with a regular boat. Sailing was quite an adventure, as you would think it was a smooth ride when you see the boats sailing across the sea. While we were there, there were two other guys with us, one setting the direction and the other one taking care of the sails and balancing the boat when our side becomes too light. The waves were splashing through our faces and I was scared for a bit, until I just became more comfortable with the ride. It was worth the ride once we saw the sunset from the boat and then headed back to the beach for a smoother ride.
Perfect sunset by the beach Sailing


Discovery Dive
I live in the islands of the Philippines who's very well known for nice diving spots, and yet I don't have the license. Just like a driver's license, I have a lot of excuses why I don't have one but really I just don't have a compelling reason why I need one. Besides, it's really an expensive hobby that I didn't want to get into.

So we were inquiring at this dive shop so Martijn can go for his dive while I will just enjoy sipping my fruit shake and take a nap. Then we inquired on how much more it would cost to rent an underwater camera so he can show some proof that he really went for a dive and saw nemo and co. It was a good deal that the lady was offering renting the camera for two dives for the price of one. She then started telling that I could join the second dive and be part of the picture. So there goes my compelling reason to dive.. she got me by the word picture, then I had images of me and some fishes in the underwater world. Then I hesitated again as I was always scared of not being able to reach the ground and being in deep water. She gave me a better deal and said I can just go and try it in shallow water by the beach, using all the equipment and will go for the discovery diving where there was a dive master always guiding me. She said if I don't feel comfortable going deeper, then I don't have to pay. I had the whole night to think about it since the dive was still the following morning.

Conquer your fear
I really thought about it and how nice it will look like on the photo. Yet, there were a lot of hesitation on how I would be able to breath underwater and what I'll do if I get tired of swimming or fighting the current. Then again, I just thought of giving it a shot since I had nothing to lose. There was no point in being scared of something I haven't even tried. So the decision was made before going to sleep, I just had to conquer my fear of the underwater world.

I was ready with my gear and just went on the shallow water. The dive master was patient in making me comfortable and teaching me how to use the diving equipments. I was a bit scared so he let me take my time. He also encouraged me whenever I was able to do the practical training. I was scared of having to do the exercise of removing my mouth piece and being able to put it back without having to take in any water. Surprisingly, I passed that exercise and I was really excited to go for my first dive.
Discovery Diving
Ready for the real dive

I really felt comfortable underwater and loved the view of the corals and school of fishes. It was great seeing it in reality when I was always just hearing it from friends or just looking at the underwater world in Sentosa.

First dive and loved it How do you smile underwater?
How do you smile underwater??? :)

We had bread crumbs to feed the fishes so all of a sudden bunch of fishes went around us to grab some food.


It was a good 55 minute dive and I didn't feel scared at all. I enjoyed it so much that we went for another dive the day after.

Holidays are over yet the memories are still fresh. Something I needed in the middle of the year, for me to be able to stretch myself and reach my targets for the rest of 2008. It was tough having to go back to work after such a wonderful vacation, but it's always a good reason to strive hard once again so I can have this kind of vacation at least every six months. :) :) :)

Good Morning Vietnam!

EARLY RISERS IN HANOI

I am on my last day of my Asian adventure, and the best morning so far. I am now in Hanoi, Vietnam. We decided to wake up early and walk around Hoan Kiem Lake. The streets are busy as early as 5am where you see food vendors on the sidewalk, people jogging around the lake followed by some yoga sessions or playing other sports (eg. badminton, sipa, etc.).
Exercising by the lake Contemplating by Ho Kien Lake
Exercises around Hoan Kiem Lake
Morning exercise in Hanoi

I had one full day in Hanoi and it was more than enough when you the day already started at 5am. Most shops are closed by 10pm, so it was just in time for our 1am flight to Manila. Hanoi is a mix of Chinese and French influence. You can see a lot of people selling in the streets, riding bicycles and motorbikes. I survived one hell of a ride in that motorbike with an expert driver I must say, yet my heart was beating really fast wondering how I will survive another minute. :)
Crazy streets of Hanoi Colorful Kites and flowers of Vietnam

Photos below reminded me so much of Paris.
The one on the left is the opera house and the one on the right is an HSBC branch. :)
Hanoi Opera
Main square in Old Quarter


CRUISING THROUGH HALONG BAY and CAT BA ISLAND
Halong Bay was highly recommended by my friends. We went for the boat cruise for 3 days and 2 nights and got a good deal for $95 which included the 3 hour drive from Hanoi, food, accommodation and all the cycling/kayaking rentals.


The Dream Voyage Tour Group
Complete crew of Dream Voyage

The first day was just sailing through thousands of limestone rocks, kayaking by the bay, going inside a big cave and enjoying seafood for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
kayaking by the Bay Cave in Halong Bay
The camera addicts taking a pose: me, Ag and Monna

View from the cave Photo time

We spent the night in the boat. As the weather was a bit misty, there were no stars in the sky, yet the lights from other boats were very visible enough to enjoy the soft mist of the night.

An attempt to catch some squids at 1am.
Night view of Halong Bay Fishing at night

The second day was a more active day with some trekking, swimming, and cycling. It was refreshing to do some cycling again and tiring when we have to climb up a hill. There were stopovers in between and nature was right next to you that made me relax and enjoy the ride.

Smoking the vietnamese way... just for photo purposes as I don't smoke.
Biking around Cat Ba Island Smoking the Vietnamese way (for photo purposes only)

Vietnamese Wannabee The traveling crew
The day ended quite early at 4pm where we checked in the hotel with some bay view, then met more tourists from other countries for some drinks until the night was finished at 1am. The lights were slowly being turned off as if a sign to start packing up.

The third day was drizzling a bit but just in time for the way back to Hanoi. A final cruise around the bay to remind us that the view is extraordinary though it may seem ordinary now for the past days. The tour ends with great food, great company of travelers and a satisfied tourist with all the adventures so far.

Cat Ba Island Cruising by the bay

One Dollaaahhh.......

"One dollar... One dollar..."



I went to Siem Reap in Cambodia and spent three days in the city. Wherever you go, there were kids asking for one dollar in exchange of postcards, drinks, fruits and even for just taking a photo of them. They were even selling Lonely Planet books for just 5 dollars! When we were passing through the floating village and there were small boats with moms carrying their kids (with a snake around them) and asking for one dollar. I didn't understand it clearly at the start only to realize they were having the same phrase as if singing a song.

One Dollar

After awhile you just get tired and try to avoid them, since they are in every temple you go to in Siem Reap. Then at one instance I just told the kid I'll come back for it, then she said "Lady, make sure you come back or else you make me cry." I couldn't help but laugh but be impressed on such unique statement, she will definitely go far among her friends. She's probably only 6-7 years old, studying in the morning then helping her parents in the afternoon. I guess the charisma of the kids make it easier for them to sell the items since your initial instinct will be to just buy whatever they have, it's just one dollar anyway. Then you start to think why at such a very young age they have to work instead of just enjoying their childhood and playing in the streets. Then again, at least they are still given the opportunity to study in the morning when their parents may actually demand them to just work all day.

That's just a bit of Cambodia that I experienced. Apart from the ancient temples and floating villages, the country has something more that you have to experience while interacting with the people and knowing more about their personal experiences.

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